Thursday, March 06, 2008

TAGAYTAY: Our family’s fave weekend getaway [March 1-2, 2008]




Twice a year or at times even thrice (if my Dad is feeling generous), our entire family hies off one long weekend to spend some time together in a totally relaxing place out of town. One such favorite place we often retreat to is a big house on Rodeo Hills, Tagaytay. Aside from its cool weather (definitely a plus), the house is quite spacious that allows our entire clan to fit in – no matter how many we were!!! (This time around there was only 27 of us, around 6 families. But during last year’s holy week I guess we were around 40 – 10 families with lotsa, lotsa kids, truly a raucous affair!) Sounds crazy, huh? But to tell the truth, the house only had three bedrooms, but it can accommodate all of us easily since they had many cushions – around 15. And they had wide open spaces, particularly the veranda surrounding almost the entire 2nd floor which allows just anybody to grab a cushion and sleep outside. No need for an electric fan either because as I said, the place had its own natural air conditioning. We only need to bring our own sheets and beddings, if you don’t want to freeze your ass off.














And as is our usual routine whenever we go to Tagaytay, we don’t usually wait for them (my Dad and Tita - coz he still plays golf in the morning while she goes to the market to buy enough food to tide us for the weekend). Instead, we go ahead (since we have the car, uhm this time the CRV was lent to us) so we can take in some sightseeing of our own and eat their ever famous bulalo for our lunch. This time, we had my two sisters as our co-passengers (coz my eldest kid had work) and we picked them up at their house at past ten. By the time we were at the SLEX, my husband and Keith were already hungry (not really surprising!) so we stopped over at the Shell select station to buy some hotdogs, candies and junk food to tide us over till we reach Tagaytay.














By 1 pm we arrived in Tagaytay and we decided to eat at this bulalo place near the Tagaytay rotunda where my husband ate with some officemates a couple of years back – The Diners. The restaurant itself was not spectacular – a little more like an improved version of the carinderia – definitely no view of the Taal volcano here because it’s smack in the middle of the city. But their bulalo tasted better than the one we had last year at that overlooking resto (whose name and taste is quite forgettable!) Even the other dishes we ordered tasted great – the inihaw na pusit, crispy fried tawilis, and ensaladang talong. My sisters and I agreed to split the bill and we ended up paying about 170 or 180 per person – quite cheap!...considering how full we all were. We were all quite satisfied with the food that we ate and our entire dining experience would have been quite satisfactory if not for the haughty attitude of the restaurant’s crew – especially the ladies taking our orders. They are the front liners of the resto and they should be more courteous to people coz their snobbishness really is a turn-off. Good thing we were already hungry at the time, so we didn’t decide to just leave and look for another place to eat. Definitely, it’s not a place we would recommend to others if only because of the discourteous staff.


After eating, we wanted to work out a sweat to taper off some of that totally fattening food we all ate, so we visited the picnic grove. My youngest sister also wanted to have her pics taken with the Taal volcano as background (for her Friendster account). So off we went to walk about a thousand steps - we paused by a bridge to have our pics taken; a halfway viewdeck – to have more pics taken; a hanging bridge where we had to walk slow otherwise we might fall off until finally we reached the top where we were able to get a truly breathtaking view of Taal. The spectacular view and the cool fresh air that greeted us at the viewdeck was so worth it! It seems no matter how many times I’ve seen Taal, it still never ceases to amaze me.


When we’ve had our fill of pictures with Taal, we left for the house. But before getting there, we chanced upon a sign just past Splendido and before Rodeo Hills that said Sonya’s garden… and I told them that I’ve read about how pretty the place is on the internet and so we decided to make a detour to check it out. And we weren’t disappointed!!! Just check out the pics and you’ll see how truly made for relaxation and comfort the entire place is …there were pretty flowers everywhere in various colors and arrangements… the relaxing lull of water fountains, the smell of roses and freshly baked bread, and very pretty nooks and crannies to lounge around in, have tea or coffee or even sleep… well, we didn’t get to do that because we didn’t have that luxury of time. Heck, we didn’t even have the budget to savor the smell of all the organic and backyard-grown food that was wafting from their kitchens or to sample the therapeutic massage services of their spa. We just contented ourselves with taking picture after picture after picture in every cozy corner of the place and with buying their bread at the bakeshop/panaderia and some organic beauty items at their country store. I would’ve wanted to buy their soaps but alas I didn’t have any money left… maybe next time coz surely Sonya’s garden is one experience you’d want to experience completely – it will definitely be on my list of places to come back to if I had more money to spare or if my daughter decided to have a garden wedding in the future (very far future, that is!)


By four pm we were already at our ‘house for the weekend’ and surprisingly despite all the places we’ve already visited, we were still the first to arrive. The others slowly trickled in as night settled in and we all feasted on bbq chicken and pork, chicken tinola, and pork binagoongan for our dinner. After gorging ourselves with all the delicious food (esp the bbq, my aunt will kill me if I don’t mention her famous bbq!) we chatted the night away – just talking about old times and doing our usual bashing of others who weren’t around (sorry guys, it’s your fault for not coming!!!) It was way past midnight when they started singing (coz they were also getting quite drunk with all the drinks they consumed!) and I took that as my cue to go to bed (coz I can’t really sing!)


The next day, I was up early again to indulge in one of my favorite past times – taking pictures of sleeping people in crazy positions (he,he,he check out my latest collection!) We ate breakfast in a while and since we all decided not to go to the beach, we just retreated to our own fave nooks of the house and do our own private things – the aunts continued with their chatter; dad was at his laptop at a spot in the veranda outside his room (the only place with a signal!) to check out the daily news and his emails; my stepsister and his husband were watching DVDs (their fave past time!); the guys played cards; the kids ran around and played in the slide in the yard; I brought the laptop but I didn’t get to use it coz my sister was playing Luxor. Good thing I also brought a book and so I was able to retreat in my own little corner to read in peace.


After lunch, the kids were once again getting restless –they grew tired playing outside and with the laptop so we decided to take them out to visit the new zoo near Mendez – Paradizoo. We got lost a bit going there coz the signs were quite confusing. But after a few hits and misses we finally got there. Entrance fee was a bit steep at PhP 199 for adults and PhP 149 for the kids but the tour took more than an hour and we were able to see unique animals (not quite your typical zoo) and experience first-hand life on a farm - so it was quite worth it…We even had a tour guide who explained to us little bits and trivia about the ten-hectare farm/ranch.

First animals we encountered were the miniature horses just after the restaurant and souvenir shop which the kids can actually ride (but did not coz it’s costly at Php 150 for only a few minutes). We continued with the tour instead and saw varied kinds of exotic animals which the guide said were imported from different parts of the globe. There were dromedary camels (with one hump) from Australia, some Kalahari goats (which we can pet and feed with all the grass readily available), dorper sheep which the guides showed how to milk (we can actually milk them and even the kids had fun feeding a baby sheep from a bottle). There were also fallow and russa deer, alpacas and llamas, fierce racing greyhounds (just too bad there was no race scheduled for that day so we didn’t get to see them in action), race horses and miniature ponies. We also visited a butterfly farm (my third for the year), a bee farm, an organic garden (with lettuces, tomatoes, carrots, even strawberries harvested and sold at the resto near the entrance), a fish pond where one can actually catch fish with a rented rod for PhP 100 (but you have to pay for the catch if you like to take it home otherwise it goes back to the pond), an orchid garden, a mushroom growing facility, a piggery where we saw Big Brother’s Peggy and her piglets, and so much more.

All in all, it was truly a very different but still fun experience because it wasn’t regular zoo animals in cramped cages that we saw but farm animals in wide open spaces. But what made the experience unique was the fact that it allowed visitors to interact and experience first-hand the kind of life in a farm. The ones who conceptualized this type of zoo should really be commended because they were able to give us – both kids and adults – a truly unforgettable experience… plus, if the kids still wanted to see more regular zoo animals, they offered a visit to the Residence Inn zoo – for free! (I guess, it’s already part of the Php 199 package) And so off we went to visit the other zoo where we got to see the regular animals like tigers, monkeys, a scraggly lion, different crocs and lizards, snakes, large fishes and birds, eagles, even a porcupine, etc.

It was about 4 pm already when we returned to the house and the kids were bursting with stories to tell of their various encounters with animals we saw in the two zoos we visited… they regaled the oldies with their stories as we ate spaghetti and cake. After a while, it was time to go home and bid goodbye to this wonderful place that we have come to call our very own ‘home away from home’… till next time!!!

Tuesday, March 04, 2008

A SIMPLE BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION




My birthday today…and yet I am going to work…but that’s alright. I am not even making any fuss over the fact that we’d just be having a simple birthday dinner tonight of chicken, spaghetti and cake…or that I have received no gifts …because guess what??? I gave myself the COOLEST GIFT OF ALL!!! Because today I just booked for myself a trip to Puerto Princesa, Palawan! Hurrah! Hurrah! This is because next week, Jun and Ymas would be attending a seminar in Palawan and what better way to celebrate my birthday than to join him there!!! And so I did…using money from my 'hidden' account, I withdrew enough to cover my plane fare and pocket money to spend there so that Jun and I can enjoy and explore the sights…ohh, I am so excited!

Mama also gave me some allowance money…a loan actually, which I could pay bit by bit (hehehe) and she also treated me to a birthday lunch at Kitaro, a Japanese resto near V. Luna Road. Then, at around snack time my boss gave a treat for us with Kowloon snacks for everyone. Add that to the weekend Tagaytay get-away which my father hosted for me and invited many of our relatives. So I guess with that much benefactors, my birthday did not really turn out so simple after all…



Monday, February 25, 2008

A ‘VACATION’ IN SINGAPORE





After roughly a week, a relative returned after staying in Singapore to try to look for ‘work’…it turns out that the kind of work she entered into was something she couldn’t stomach so she decided to leave and return instead to the country. It was her best friend who enticed her to go there with her, she knew very well that her job entailed waitressing in a bar…but she hoped it ended there – but it turns out it did not since most of the customers there ‘expect’ the waitresses to be ‘taken out’ so during the nights that she worked there she had to fend off the numerous advances of her male customers no matter how cute they may be. Add to that the fact that the old Singaporean who owns the apartment unit she shares with her friend is not as harmless as he seems and had a ‘huge crush’ on her…one time that she was alone in the house with only her best friend's children accompanying her(because her friend went to work in the bar) the guy almost molested her…but her quick thinking and the kids presence saved her. So when her friend went back to the country with her kids, she opted to go home too than be left behind at the mercies of lions. She figures she’d have other chances to work abroad anyway - now is not just her time…I am just thankful that she did not end up in the hands of prostitution syndicates and that she got back home to us safely.

Saturday, February 16, 2008

DAVAO: THE PREMIERE CITY OF THE SOUTH



This working trip to Davao is my first out-of-town travel for the year… you see part of the reason why I have been remiss in posting regularly in this blog last year 2007 was because our office has been quite busy – arranging media engagements for THE BOSS almost every month. What’s even more exciting is that the work brings us to different provinces of the country. It started in Mindanao (Cagayan de Oro) and I was lucky to have been part of the first leg of the so-called ‘provincial tour’ sometime in July. But since there was just four of us in the office, it couldn’t be possible that I will get to join the provincial sorties every single time since someone had to be left behind to man the ship, so to speak. So during the next sortie which was held in Bohol (around August), I wasn’t able to join them. For October, the group went to Butuan and I was once again not chosen to join. On November, there were two trips: Leyte and Laguna and I was lucky to have gone to both. I specifically chose Leyte since I figured it would be near Samar where a cousin and I may get to visit another cousin but it wasn’t meant to be… Before the month ended, we headed off to nearby Laguna while Masbate became our last trip of the year (December). I declined joining the Masbate leg because I already visited Legaspi when the hubby's unit had an outing in 2006 to visit butandings in Donsol.

So when the year started, I was lucky once again to have made it to the list of employees who will be going to Davao. This is another of my dream destinations – not because of the numerous places that can be considered tourist spots (although they also have many notable ones!) It is rather because Davao, a known premiere city of the South is truly a must-see in the Mindanao region. It is also a shopping mecca for batik malongs, colorful bags, hats, trinkets and much more… Besides, during these ‘working trips’, we never really expect to be able to make the rounds of tourist destinations because ‘our bosses’ keep telling us – we’re here for work, not act as tourists!?! But there were some instances when the governors or even the province mayors are generous enough to take the group/secretariat to some popular sights. This happened in Bohol (where they rode a tour bus to visit Chocolate hills, the tarsiers, Loboc church and Panglao beach). Then again in Leyte, where the city government even provided us a tour guide for the city tour to visit some museums, the Palo Leyte landing site and finally the San Juanico bridge. The others – CDO, Butuan, Laguna and Masbate were purely working affairs and didn’t include any tours in the itinerary.

January was a month for rest and for a while we thought that the provincial gigs were suspended (due to lack of budget!) but it seems not because by the first week of February, the office was once again abuzz with activity and for only the second time (after Cagayan and six other provincial trips) my husband and I were finally together in a trip (hurrah, hurrah!) Our actual venue was in Tagum City but since there were no direct flights there we were able to savor what Davao had to offer (even if it’s only for a day and after all our work was done!!!)

Our PAL plane reached Davao City on the 6th of February and we all enjoyed a buffet breakfast at 7 am at a restaurant at Victoria Mall…sorry I forgot the name of the resto but suffice it to say the food was good since there was so many to choose from and we were already quite hungry that I forgot to take pictures (he,he,he) Besides, we had to wake up at such an ungodly hour at 2 am just to reach the airport and catch the first flight at 6am so I guess I could be forgiven for forgetting such teensy-weensy details. After our breakfast, we rode in rented vans for an hour-long ride to Tagum City. For the first day, we got busy with the preparations of the venue, the media center, the invitations/co-ordinations with media and local PIA, etc. We only took a short break to hear mass since it was Ash Wednesday and we visited Tagum's church - the Christ the King cathedral. Too bad that it was already dark by the time we got out so we weren't able to see the huge rosary.

For the next couple of days we got busy with our work – Everything was already standard procedure for us (well, after six trips we have already managed to get our jobs down pat) but we didn’t expect the huge number of media who came to witness the event. Even Susan Enriquez was there although she was only one of the three Manila-based reporters who came (because everyone else was caught up with the Jun Lozada expose which erupted at the same time). We got deluged by Davao-based reporters and even from nearby provinces like Cagayan de Oro so that our IDs and press kits ran out. But nonetheless, we were able to cope up and simply made do with what we had.

So on the third day, when our duties were finally over the group decided to just pack our bags and head for Davao City where we were billeted at the Marco Polo Hotel. After checking in our bags and freshening up a little in our rooms, we all left for Jack’s Ridge and for the first time in three days we were finally able to sample Davao cuisine at its finest! Sure, the food during the 2-day workshop was OK because the governor’s caterer was Kapampangan and they sure know how to cook good food. But still you can’t take Pampanga out of them no matter how far and how many oceans they have traveled. They still will taste like fiesta food pretty much like a typical Kapampangan.


So at Jack’s Ridge we gorged ourselves sick with seafood – particularly their inihaw na panga ng tuna, kinilaw na tuna, , sinigang na hipon, and calamares. Of course there was always the staple barbecued chicken and pork and so much more. But while waiting for the food to arrive, we had a great time posing for pictures. Then, after the heavy meal some of the guys went down what seems like a sunken garden to shed off all the food they have eaten but I just watched them because I didn’t feel like I had the strength left to go up so many steps. I stayed behind atop the hill and watched the city of Davao before me – and I’m reminded of the Antipolo overlooking. If what the owner of Jack’s Ridge say is true then the entire city of Davao used to be submerged in water due to evidence of shells and other sea fossils only found underwater that were discovered there on that same hill. After awhile, we all retired for the night since we had an early day tomorrow!


The next day, the hubby and I got up early, took our baths and ate breakfast at their restaurant downstairs. We were literally overwhelmed with the buffet spread that Marco Polo offered and we would have wanted to eat them all and take our sweet little time devouring everything but we couldn’t coz we have to be at the lobby by 8 for our Davao city tour.

Expectedly, the group wasn’t able to leave by 8 because we were so many and we had to wait till each and every one of us had finished with their breakfast, taking their baths, doing their usual toilet routine, and dressing up. Finally, when everyone was ready we left aboard three (or was it four?) rented vans to visit the world-famous Samal Island. We took a short 30-minute ferry ride to Samal Island where our first stop for the day was the Bat caves. The entrance was free although we had to endure a short ten-minute walk from the entrance to the actual cave itself. Once there we were all overwhelmed not just by the sight of millions and millions of bats sticking to the all the cracks and crevices of the cave but also by the smell!!! I never realize until this moment that bat droppings could smell like a public toilet – thus we never ventured any nearer to the mouth of the cave. Also, the guide says there were many snakes living at the cave floors, just waiting for the right moment to snap and catch their next meal.

After awhile, we left the bat caves since it was already almost lunch time and we proceeded to Paradise Resort for our lunch. We were actually hoping to visit the Davao Pearl Farm but there was a bit of trouble with the schedule so they were unable to accommodate us. Well, the resort itself wasn’t at all bad – they had a mini zoo where we had fun looking at the animals while waiting for the food to arrive. Of course, the boys also had their own kinda fun watching all the women in skimpy swim suits. They wanted to stay behind and go for a swim but the bosses didn’t want to stay anymore so after the scrumptious albeit very expensive meal, we all decided to go back to Davao City to continue the city tour.


We visited an Orchidarium, where they sold orchids cheap! (This is another reason why I wanted to go to Davao – because of their flowers!!!) Then we went to a Butterfly farm and the Crocodile Park where we didn’t just see crocodiles but lots of other animals too. It’s just too bad that we had so little time to tour Davao so we were unable to go to the Eden Nature Park and which they say is another amazing place to visit. Neither were we able to visit the Philippine Eagle Foundation. So I guess we’ll just add that up to my already expanding list of places to go back to (if and when I have the time and money for it!)


Our last stop before we finally boarded the plane back to Manila was – yes, you guessed it right! … shopping at the Aldevinco mall. We were unable to shop at our own sweet pace because the shops were already closing (so early at 7pm???...totally unheard of in Manila!) We also had to hurry to catch our 9pm flight so I didn’t have the luxury of time to browse and browse before finally picking what to buy. Instead, we entered the store – bought malongs and large hankies; entered another store to buy bags and pretty shawls; and still another store for the fans… too bad for me I didn’t get to buy shirts which they said only cost PhP80…maybe next time. Coz there surely will be a next time because this Davao trip is so bitin!!!! I want to come back here with purely leisure as my agenda so I can fully savor everything that Davao had to offer – its magnificent beaches, amazing flora and fauna - nature at its best, freshly-caught and cooked seafood, sweet fruits, unique coffee blends, fab shopping finds and so much more!!!

Sunday, February 03, 2008

CHI-CHI’S 7th BIRTHDAY AT MAX’S




We spent the day today having a blast at Chi-chi’s birthday party at Max’s… her motif is ‘prince and princess’ so the kids had to wear gowns and princely costumes to attend the event. Expectedly, Kit didn’t want to take part in such hulla-baloo so he opted to stay home na lang even if it meant passing up on the crunchy fried chicken of Max’s…anyway, so it was only Kaye and I who went and we borrowed a gown from Nicole for Kaye to wear. Nicole had a pretty mermaid gown which won for her the best-dressed award of the party. There were many games and thankfully Kaye joined in some of them but only with a lot of prodding from me and Mama and Anna. Anna’s friend, the actress Kat even made a surprise appearance. There were many people who came and took part in the celebration but I guess it would be more if relations between us would become finally OK...but it's not and we should just be happy for moments like this to spend with family.

Saturday, February 02, 2008

Chocolate Kiss Moments

Last month my Mom and I had a little bonding moment… you see we were never really close. She was not that type of mother – the caring, over-protective kind who will fuss over you and ask you how you were or if you have eaten. More often than not, we were left to the care of yayas and she was well… busy with her work. Not that I have any reason to complain – we were all brought up well… all I’m really saying is that we never really got the chance to be with each other often, especially while I was growing up. Hence, our bonding moments as mother and daughter were really few and far between.

Our moment actually started out as still work-related… you see even after she has retired, she has not stopped working. She continues to work part-time as a researcher for AIM to add to her income as a professor and she took me in as one of her researchers for a writing project. And as part of the research, my study was reviewed by a UP professor. She joined me in hearing the comments/ suggestions made by the professor (which were many by the way!) And when it was over, we decided to eat lunch inside the campus. It was her treat – maybe her way of assuaging my prickly pride – what with all the revisions I have to undertake with my study! No but kidding aside I wasn’t really all that hurt with the comments. In fact, it was understandable since it was my first time to take on a research project of that magnitude and I really welcomed the suggestions she made so I can further improve the paper. I guess mama really just wanted to share with me her many blessings and have this chance to spend some time together.

I chose the place where we will eat – at first, I suggested the UPCAS cafeteria but it was lunchtime and expectedly packed. So off we went to Chocolate Kiss since I haven’t eaten there yet but I have already read many good reviews of the place. Mama has eaten there already –many times during her meetings with a former UP Alumni president (because the resto was situated in the 2nd floor of the UP Bahay ng Alumni) and she said the food was good.

The ambiance when we entered was quite charming – a perfect date place, not so quiet but neither boisterous as to disturb the diners. I heard they even play the piano on weekend nights... very nice indeed! As expected, the place was quite full, but we were lucky to get a table for two near the window which offered us a wee bit of privacy. We both ordered pasta – hers was pesto while mine was my all time favorite, carbonara and it tasted great! We also had iced tea which was served with some form of syrup as sweetener or maybe it was honey – I couldn’t really tell. But the coup de grace was their cakes – I wanted to taste them all but the prices were a bit steep so I made mama take her pick. I could not remember the name of the cake, all I can recall was how good it tasted – I think it was walnut something.

While we ate all the great food, we had fun chatting about the goings-on in her life and the house – now that my brother is back home, she had lots to say about his new shenanigans, but she’s not really complaining. She didn't harp all that much and there were less complaints in her stories. Admittedly, her aura seemed much better now.

Still, I am glad when she mentioned that she has ceased to dwell on the negative side of life, thanks to an inspirational CD that helped her a lot. I’m happy that she has found something to help her be happy or even a bit more positive about herself and her life. I’m happy too that she has her friends to always support her. I guess what she needs more right now (is not a new lover!) but to realize that her family, too, will be here for her. So here’s hoping we’ll have more bonding moments like these… just to let her know I’m here if she needs someone to talk to...

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Myk at NKTI




At long last it seems that my first-born son finally grew some sense and would soon be having a job!!! Instead of just staying home playing the computer all day --- well, technically, he’d still be staring at a computer all day but this time it’s for a reason --- he’d be a CCTV operator and the computers he would be staring at would help a lot in maintaining the safety and security of patients at the NKTI. At least this time his time spent facing a computer monitor would now be a productive endeavor! Maybe this would make him realize the importance of studying college since he’d see how so routinary his task would be if he stays at the lowest rung of the corporate ladder. Because that’s what would happen to him if he refuses to get a degree, he would just stare at the CCTV screen all day and all night! But with a degree, he may be assigned to a real office doing something analytical that would work his brains out! Or maybe, it would push him to study in the PMA…who knows?!? But I’m jumping the gun here, I would just take each day as it comes and first hope that he passes the initial interview (which I know he will, since Irwin is a dear friend of mine as well as Mama’s) What I just hope is that he’d do well in this job so that he would be able to earn some money for his needs – which I also hope he would not just splurge on gimmicks with friends or worse…girlfriends! I’ll just pray and keep my fingers crossed…

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

ALL GIRLS DAY OUT!





Last Saturday, some old college friends cooked up our own version of an all-girls day out wherein we all took a day-off from chores (being a Saturday and laundry day!) and just hung out at a friend's place - doing nothing but eat and chat and watch movies all day long!!!! It was truly a treat to remember coz aside from gorging ourselves with delicious food, our tired and aching bodies were rewarded with a much-needed massage and manicure/pedicure - all for free!!!

All this was courtesy of a long-time childhood friend who decided to give us these treats to celebrate her birthday. The day started at around 1 pm (coz that's the time she normally wakes up) when her driver picked us up within the vicinity of QC to bring us (two other college friends, a newly-wed sister and myself) to her place all the way up in Antipolo.

The house itself was huge... they say it was an ancestral relic from her hubby's side of the family. But, being a relic - the place still needed much repairs...although they're slowly doing this one room at a time. The showcase was their bedroom - it was done in all white and was reminiscent of the palatial bedrooms that can be seen in most luxury hotels... very pristine and elegant! Her dressing room and bathroom was also to die for - with its wide vanity mirrors and very unique bathtub. But the piece de resistance is their new video room ... with its huge wall mounted plasma TV (it took up an entire wall, I swear!) complete with seven Lazy boy lounging chairs that is truly designed to increase anyone's viewing pleasure (just check out the pics!)

Then, there was the food - I know this friend of mine is into the restaurant business so it is expected that she'd know her way around the kitchen or even where to get the best eats in town - and we were not disappointed! Upon arrival, we ate some snacks of homemade sandwiches (pandesal with giniling filling), Lord Stowe's famous to-die for tarts and Mary Grace's creamy cheese rolls! After watching a movie, a fruit and cheese platter arrives and we once again munch our way while watching and chatting/reminiscing on old times ... sorry, I'm not much of movie buff so I don't really remember the titles we watched but I do remember it was about Michelle Pfeiffer hooking up with a younger man. How apt... although the situation is still far off from our own personal lives- we're not even in our forties and all still very much married - we still enjoyed the movie's plot and laughed ourselves silly at their lovey-dovey antics!

We lost track of time, but I guess it was during the third movie that we decided to eat dinner. We weren't really all that hungry but we wanted to stand up and remove our lazy bodies from the lazy boys so we all trooped to the dining area where we ate a sumptuous feast of fresh salad, grilled sea bass in hollandaise sauce, pasta with olive oil and tuna /or longganiza. And though we said to ourselves that we weren't really hungry, we still managed to gorge ourselves to the brim, so much so that I felt so inclined to sleep already. After all, by that time it was already way past my bedtime (which is normally at ten pm) but I couldn't really sleep coz it was only the time when these people start to be awake (they're all insomniacs, by the way). But, what the heck! I decided to stay since the next day is a Sunday anyway and I rarely find the time to go out and enjoy myself like this so I just let myself savor the moment!

By the fourth movie, about the time after we had our dessert (mango torte) and coffee, I fell asleep a bit - I think around 15 minutes or so. By then, we were watching a stand-up comedy flick of some black guy (as usual, I have forgotten who it was??? ) and after the movie and after we all had our manicure and pedicure, we proceeded to the main theme of the party which is 'the OC' - yes, we're all in some way afflicted with it and my friend was generous to give all of us some loot bags complete with OC stuff like multi-colored boxes, folders, and envelopes for organizing our numerous bric-a-bracs. We were also given paper tapes to use with her electronic labeler - I wasn't able to list down some of the things I want to label so I just let my daughter make her own name labels and also for her brothers.

To cap it all off, we all had a very soothing massage courtesy of her blind masseuse and admittedly it was a very good way to end the evening... even if it was actually already 4 o'clock in the morning. We would've wanted to sleep over (well, my daughter did sleep a bit at her daughter's room) but they had to travel to Tarlac and visit one of their resto's there. So the driver once again dropped us off in QC and we made the long travel back to our home in Bulacan... but it was worth it. It was fun reminiscing with friends and having the time of our lives. It was fun to just let everything go and forget our day-to-day worries as moms, even for just one day! Thanks so much dear friend and here's hoping next year she'd spend her birthday the same way... it will be something to truly look forward to...

Sunday, January 20, 2008

FIRST (…and hopefully the last!) FIESTA AT TONDO





Today, the family awoke early and got ready to leave for Tondo, Manila to attend the fiesta celebrations there. Their fiesta is usually held on the third Sunday of January, much the same as Cebu’s Sinulog fiesta since they both have the same patron – the Santo Niño.

It was a bit difficult getting there which is why we opted to leave early to steer clear of traffic areas and get there with ample time to park the vehicle. But sad to say, the house rented by our pamangkin (who lives there and works as a vendor at Divisoria) was situated within a tiny eskinita and so we had no choice but park in the corner and walk the rest of the way to their house.

The fiesta itself was uneventful, we were too far away from the city proper to view the parades and see the street festivities – we just stayed inside the house and ate delicious fiesta fare prepared by no other than Ditse who slaved all day yesterday and today to cook menudo, afritada, fried chicken, among others… what made our stay memorable was what happened afterwards, in the afternoon, just as we were getting ready to leave.

We were standing outside the house, trying to walk off the numerous pounds we just gorged into our bodies when suddenly a commotion occurred and many people were seen hurrying inside their homes and so without asking what and why, we just followed suit. It was much later when we found out from neighbors (and from Jun and Rely who were outside at the time) that a stabbing incident occurred at the street corner and the suspect with a knife ran inwards, to the street where we were situated and hid somewhere in the inner side streets of the place…thankfully, the suspect did not harm anybody else. The FX we left at the corner even had traces of blood…eeew! I guess that was more than enough to shake all of us up and after awhile we decided to leave lest it become dark soon and God knows what else would happen once nightfall happens… hopefully, this would be the last time we would attend such an event in this place.

Thursday, January 17, 2008

UNIQUE GIFTS


The Christmas rush is past - the decors neatly wrapped and tucked away, gifts have all been opened with all the wrappings thrown away... but I would like to make my one last post for Christmas 2007 just to share with you the little things I gave away to friends and co-workers.

You see not everyone is blessed with lots of money to buy pretty gifts and it seems kinda awkward to always be just on the receiving end of gift-giving when Christmas really is all about showing someone how much you have appreciated them all these years.

Thus, in my own little way [and meager government employee budget] I still managed to give away the following little tokens of appreciation:

For little kids, I gave away these little beaded coin purses which takes me about two hours to make.... but since I am only able to do this when I get home from work (usually while I am watching my telenovelas) I am only able to do one each night. Often, when I help my kids with their assignments I don't get the chance to do anything at all. So I was only able to complete about 20 coin purses this Christmas which I was able to give away to cutesy nieces and even daughters of friends.



















For teenaged nieces and lady friends, I had a choice between cellphone holders or cosmetic cases made in varying colors. I had to take pains to find out which is their fave color so that I know they would really be able to use the ones I made for them.


















The gifts for our bosses I did not really make. Instead, I had my mother-in-law whip out her secret recipe for atsara which I then placed in red bowls, wrapped in sinamay, tied with a red ribbon and voila! A truly delicious and unique gift which they'd hopefully appreciate (well, if they eat atsara, that is!)















Finally, for some friends and co-workers, I baked some muffins and cookies which I then placed in red boxes or in pretty Christmas themed square plates, wrapped in cling paper and tied up with a gold ribbon. The gifts do not really cost me much - only my time, patience and a whole lot of love... just my own little way of showing how much I care...




WALKING




Today, I decided to start walking outside the office compound. I would’ve wanted to walk around inside the compound but I just hate to be at the receiving end of questioning stares and smirks by some people and so I decided to go out of the compound and walked around the office area. It helped a bit that another friend decided to walk with me otherwise I wouldn’t have been able to gather the guts to start exercising again…these are the times when I really miss my life in Camp Crame because there I can always do tae-bo on Tuesdays and Thursdays – no questions asked! No raised eyebrows??? So unlike the crowd here… oh well I guess I just can’t have it all. Anyway, what’s important is that I have started to walk again and in fact, I just recently bought new shoes pa (which were on sale about a week ago!) So I just hope that I TRULY would be able to sustain this and continue my pursuit of wellness coz after all I ain’t getting any younger hehehe…

Monday, January 14, 2008

MY FIRST PDI BREAKTHROUGH




Finally, after about three months of operation, and after three months of sending letters to editors to the different newspaper outfits I finally had my first breakthrough in PDI…well, I have already seen most of my letters published particularly in Malaya and Manila Times but this is the very first time ever that I got one published in PDI…this particular paper kasi is so fussy in choosing which letters to publish so the time I was able to get one published is truly some cause for celebration! Well, this isn’t actually the first one for the office, because I think Joanne already had a first, but this is just the second and I’m just so glad that it came from me!!! HURRAH! HURRAH!


Tuesday, January 08, 2008

KITCHEN (MIS) ADVENTURES [PART 3]



Just being true to my word, huh? well, at least it's still the second week of the year so I guess I have no reason to slack off just yet... Well, last weekend, I started to fulfill another vow I made to myself and my kids - to return to baking!!! And besides, I still have a few friends whom I haven't given gifts for the holidays so I'll just bake some goodies for them, wrap them in special packaging and voila! edible yet special presents for special people, no less! (my other unique gift ideas will be the subject of another blog...)

OATMEAL COOKIES WITH NIPS


I saw this recipe in an on-line site, I guess it was from a chocolate company like Nestle or something like that. What I really like about this cookie is that I am able to feed my little girl fiber-rich oatmeal which she otherwise would not have eaten if it were served in a traditional bowl with hot water, milk and fruits. She thinks it's yucky when oatmeal is served that way but she just adores oatmeal cookies, not knowing they're made from the same stuff she hates so much. I don't really remember the recipe much (even if I have done this for countless times already, I still need to have my recipe card file on hand) so I guess I'll just recount the procedures I followed...


First I creamed the butter using a standard mixer, added sugar (I used moscovado by the way, some say it has less of the artificial stuff found in most white sugars), egg and vanilla. Then, I added the pre-mixed and sifted dry ingredients - flour, baking soda, cinnamon, salt and nutmeg. Finally, I added about 3 cups of oatmeal ( a mixture of instant and bran oats to make the cookies chewy). Then, I formed them into balls, placed them about 2 inches apart in lined cookie sheets then my daughter placed some nips onto the cookies and popped them into the oven for 10-15 minutes.


















CORN MUFFINS

This one's a recipe I got from sassy at pinoycook.net (you may check her website). What I like about most of sassy's recipes is that they're very easy to follow and she gives very detailed instructions that even a dimwit in the kitchen like me can easily follow. I won't anymore give details of the recipe... just take my word for it, go visit her site. I'll just post photos of what I did. [BTW, her pics are better than mine coz I think she uses a 10 megapix camera while I only use my celphone's 2 megapix cam, so there!] Anyway, I can assure you, they taste better than how they look... proof of this is the way I almost didn't get to taste them coz my kids ate them as soon as they were out of the oven. Good thing I saved a few to give away to a friend...















BAKED CHICKEN

Well, this is one recipe that didn't really come out right but I promised to post even those that became kitchen disasters so that I would remember not to do them again... You see, I decided to bake something for lunch coz I figured I'm already baking cookies and muffins, why not save myself a little time and just pop something in the oven after I have finished baking sweets. But I didn't have a baked chicken recipe on hand so I decided to use instead a bbq chicken recipe I found from an old newspaper file. I thought it would turn out the same but I was dead wrong! While the chicken was being baked it smelled great! But after about 30 minutes, I began to notice that it wasn't cooking as fast as I wanted it to and when finally I took it out after about 40 minutes, it still wasn't cooked through. So into the fryer it went and we ended up having fried chicken instead... I guess it was wrong for me to place it in an oven-proof baking dish, like what I use when baking fish. Maybe it would have turned out better if I just placed it in the oven's griller and never mind if I had a whole lot of mess to clean up afterwards... anyway, I guess I've learned my lessons well...

Thursday, January 03, 2008

NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS



I guess everyone has to go through with this... some may think it as a very tedious chore that tradition dictates everyone to do at the start of the year but end up not fulfilling, so they tend to stop doing it altogether. But for me, even if I don't really manage to accomplish all the resolutions that I have made, I guess it helps that I somehow set some goals for myself otherwise I would end up not striving for anything at all... so here goes...

Resolution No. 1 - DIET! DIET! DIET! I've tried doing this [albeit half-heartedly] for the entire year last year but instead of losing weight, I ended up gaining 10 pounds!!! So this year, I intend to really stick to my diet - eat food only in moderation (less rice! no sweets!), drink lots of water and try to put in some exercise, especially during the weekends. I also intend to let my 11-year old son join me in this crusade since he weighs as much as I do (130 lbs) and he's only 11 and not even five feet tall!!!

Resolution No. 2 - Go to mass every Sunday - Last year, I admit to have been a little complacent in my relationship with the Lord thinking that He'll always be there no matter what. But I guess I need to prioritize HIM more in my life especially now that I have so much to be thankful for...

Resolution No. 3 - BLOG more often. Last year was the year I started blogging and admittedly with all the things going on in my life - I guess, I took my writing for granted so now I vow that never again will I let this happen! I hope to be able to blog at least once a week... (especially now that I am allowed to bring the laptop home)

Resolution No. 4 - Spend more quality time with the kids and the hubby (I guess I've been neglecting him, too). If last year was the time I vowed to cook more delicious meals for them more often, this time I still intend to continue that (thanks to sassy! and other new cooking sites I discovered) and also take them out more often - even if for simple picnics at the park or trips to the zoo. This month, I promised to bring them to the science centrum at the Mall of Asia - that would be a good start!

Resolution No. 5 - I need to find a second job... well there are so many things that I have planned to do this year - maybe a trip to Cebu, with a sidetrip to Bohol during the May fiesta or to enter my kids in some English tutorial lessons or ballet - and I can't do all of these without any money so I really need a part-time job, maybe tutoring Koreans through the net - anything at all! Just so I would be able to fulfill all these dreams.

Resolution No. 6 - I also want to refurbish or finish the renovation of our kitchen. You see, last 2005, we had our kitchen extended but our funds ran out and we never really got around to do the finishing touches like the cabinets, tiles and even painting of the walls. We just made do with it coz anyway, we're able to use it as it is. So I guess more money is needed to finally make my dream kitchen become a reality.

Resolution No. 7 - If I can't yet find a second job, I guess I need to rejuvenate my chocolate candy or cookie business so I can earn even a little money on the side and at the same time make sure that I provide healthy snacks for my kids. I hope they would shun junk foods and only eat the baked goodies that I make so they'd remain healthy and fit.

Resolution No. 8 - Continue scrap booking! I know some may think that with the advent of blogging, scrap booking will be a thing of the past but this is not really necessarily so. So I guess I need to dig up my scissors, my colored paper and glue and start scrapping those memories away!

I guess that's just about it... these eight resolutions are already quite hard for me to muster but I'll try to add some more when I think up something new. Wish me luck!!!