ON KIDS AND COURTSHIP


Yesterday, I had a funny yet totally disturbing conversation with my daughter - she told me that her cousin who is nine years old (just one year older than her) already had a boyfriend…a classmate who was also her textmate…When I asked how he became her boyfriend, she just said that he was her crush and she was likewise his crush and when they both knew that simple fact – that was it! They were ‘ON’ na!!! And I go what??? It’s that easy!?! No more courtship??? No more getting-to-know-you stage??? Grabe naman! I never realized how quickly times have changed…before courtship was a very long and tedious process that starts with friendship…(well, my grandma can argue they had a more difficult time – I’m sure!) But still…I wonder??? What happens when they realize they don’t like each other pala…they drop the relationship like one hot potato??? Oh dear, so that’s why I have been noticing that this niece of mine has long stopped playing with her other cousins whenever we come home to the province to visit, while my daughter and her other cousins play ball and bathe outside by the poso, she just sits in her corner, texting and mostly keeping to herself…I just hope that my daughter won’t do the same thing her cousin did and have a boyfriend at such a young age…if my wish would be granted, I hope she enjoys her youth and plays with her friends and her girly toys for a long…long…long…time! After all, she’d have the rest of her adult life to worry about boys and getting into (and out of) relationships!!!